We asked headteachers what they would tell someone about to start a headship. Here is what they said:

  1. Kyrstie Stubbs: be clear on your values. Nick Hart: then be patient and find a school that shares them.
  2. @MissC: headship is tough and demanding. Be prepared, and make sure it is what you really want.
  3. Bretta Townend-Jowitt: build a support network. Headship can be isolating, so have trusted colleagues, mentors and friends you can call on.
  4. @Tea4HeadTEAcher: the right choice isn't always the easiest one. Your decisions shape the school's culture, so make the tough calls.
  5. Lyndsay McRoberts shared this quote on leadership: "tough enough to demand a great deal from others but tender enough to encourage the heart."
  6. @MrSFarmer: delegate and trust your team. Stay involved, but don't micromanage; give people ownership.
  7. Dr Philip Purvis and Lee Hill: lead with humility, honesty and trust, and model them yourself.
  8. Primary Head asks one question: "Why?" Before you apply, be honest about your motives, and check they fit what your pupils and school need.

Massive thanks to our fellow headteachers for sharing their advice.